I have been remarried2 1/2 years,first marriage 22 years.My husband is a baby christian and when he gets angry he says aweful things.Tonight he said things in front of my 22 year old son who has been battling mental health issues that was on the sexual matter about me that was shameful and so disrepectful,I was shocked!! tearing down the respect of being his mother and a GOD fearing woman.Can not handle it!! Please pray for me.......

I am praying...

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There is no such thing."

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Confront him, if he has the gall to say something that offends you he should be man enough to receive some reprimand. Don't just pray about it, take some action. Stand up for yourself.

There is a logical reason why the divorce rate is close to 75% in second marriages;most people bring the behavior that caused their first marriage to collapse into their second marriage.This is one of the logical reasons for Jesus' strict prohibition against re-marriages unless the first marriage ended through death.

Mark 10:11-12 (King James Version)

11And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.

12And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.

The one marriage rule largely eliminates the problem of two marriages being ruined through the same wrong behavior.

I agree with Military Dog's advice (Don't just pray about it, take some action. Stand up for yourself.) with some modifications.Let's add the words "for the peace,love,and forgiveness of Jesus" after the word "pray".That will make the words "about it" unnecessary.Then let's substitute the words "Jesus and His truth" for the word "yourself"

There you go.Then upon reflection if you or your husband are divorced with a living spouse,you will realize that in God's mind you are not married at all since God does not recognize man's legal proceedings of divorce or annulment so there is no marriage to be saved.That moral decision will make the words "take some action" very clear to you.Hopefully very quickly before your husband's verbal abuse destroys your self-confidence to such an extent that you become afraid to live on your own.Oh wait you don't have to fear that.The Holy Spirit just directed me to a verse that tells you exactly what to do.Here it is:

Matthew 19:29 (New King James Version)

29 And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My name’s sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and inherit eternal life.

Just substitute the word "husband" for" wife".The Holy Spirit explained to me that the words "for My name's sake" in your individual case is an instruction to find employment in a ministry with a family work environment (close interpersonal relations among the employees)to make it much easier for you to transition to a single lifestyle.

Amazing isn't it? YOUR PRAYER HAS ALREADY BEEN ANSWERED!

WOW that sure worked fast !!

Ok it's time to start thanking God now !!!

Dear hislight77, I am praying for you. I am called prayerrose and starting a prayer ministry with sandra on here at helmetheads on Monday 8th February. We will mention your prayer request and have people pray on the matter. We will also pray for your husband who is a new christian and your 22 yr old son. Its never easy when these things happen but as MilitaryDog said confront him and stand up for yourself too. Keep prayerful too and dont give up.
Love in the Lord,
Prayerrose.

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