I have found that as I concentrate on what God wants me to do and quit trying to change and control my husband, that I have greater peace. The hurt wells up at times, but the frustration is gone. I remind myself daily that changing my husband is not my job and not my responsibility. I have to pray every day for Jesus to show me how to respond and behave in HIS way. Obviously, my way doesn't work, so I must submit to HIS way. Oh how hard it is at times. I want to fight back. I want to shake...