It is true: Hurt people hurt people. I didn't mean to, and sometimes I didn't realize it, and sometimes I was defending me. I reacted inappropriately many times out of my hurt. I lashed out on some folks just because I displaced my anger. I took a bad attitude toward men because of my hurt. I lashed out at my children--that is one thing I regret the most. Through my insanity of the intense deep continuous pain in my heart, I struck back not only on the offender but on honest bystanders just...